A Path For Christian Dating
The process of determining if someone is your life mate involves a complex sequence of emotional, mental, and spiritual commitments. In order to consciously commit without reservation, there are building sets of assessments that must be made in any Christian dating relationship! As you and yours progress from interested inception toward marital consummation use these questions as a guide rail! This list is certainly not exhaustive, yet it does cover a broad framework of the questions you need to internally ask while your relationship extends and expands in depth, scope, and intensity.
Do you choose to marry this person?
Do you have the courage to get married?
Are you ready to do life together?
Is this the parent for your children?
Are you ready to give yourself to them?
Does family have legit reservations?
Has time tested your relationship?
Do you have any engagement holdups?
Have you fasted & prayed for peace?
Are you willing to relocate?
Will they be a committed provider, partner, and parent?
Are you having fun?
Are they integrating into your world?Have you overcome difficulty together?
Are you respecting physical boundaries?
Is your heart exclusively focused?
Would your grandparents approve?
Do they keep plans & pledges?
Have you noticed any red flags?
Same persona in public & private?
Is fruit evident in their life?
Is their social media clean?
Are they committed to growth?
Are they wise re: hazards/temptation?
Do they live out the Christian life?
Do you feel safe?
Can you trust this person?
Have they been changed by Christ?
Are they ready for marriage?
Are their finances in order?
Do you have congruent lifestyles?
Are they responsive to communication?
Do you look forward to talking | texting?
Do you like their social scene?
Is there a physical attraction?
Are they active in a Biblical church?
Is God interweaving your paths?
Discovered mutual friends & interests?